All parents worry about their children as they approach
adulthood -
“Will my kids be
happy, successful, will they be able to move on in life and achieve their full
potential?”
These are the natural preoccupations of any mother or
father.
Yet when your son or daughter needs specialist care and support
to become a socially included adult, these preoccupations can turn into very
real worries about what support will be available after school or college. In the
language of our government agencies this is known as the ‘Transition Process’.
In this short article, part of a series for family carers by
Autism Care UK, two parents share their very different experiences of ‘Transition’. Moving from a familiar world of Children’s
Services and school to Adult Services and wider society, their stories describe
the things that make for a successful transition and what can make it a
nightmare.
Mary, 47, is mother to Karl who has just turned 23 and is
now settled in supported living with other people his age;
“From about the age of 14 Karl really started to act out his
frustrations both at school and here at home. The school’s concern added to my
own worries about his future”
Describing the process of getting a robust future plan in
place, Mary talks in terms of a ‘brick wall’;
“It was really very difficult to engage Adult Services. This
did not happen in any meaningful way until he was 16. I had spent months making
sure that a Social Worker would attend his review only to be told he ‘might’ be
eligible for future services post 19”
This sense of uncertainty typified the Transition experience
for Karl, Mary, and the rest of the family;
“I realised pretty early on that co-ordinating the
transition would be down to me. Don’t get me wrong the school did all they
could but it seemed almost impossible to speak to the right people at the right
time”
“Once Karl’s assessment was finally complete I thought our
problems were over. I was not asking for Residential College, just for Karl to
be able to live locally to home with support. But on the day he left school there
was no provision identified, much less any confirmed funding in place”.
This meant that on leaving school, Karl lived at home
without any formal services for almost eight months. His behavioural needs
escalated through the lack of the structure he was used to.
“A year before, his sister had left college and gone to Uni.
But I felt that Karl had been left on this terrible kind of scrapheap ”
These kind of feelings are sadly not uncommon in the
parental experience of Transition - A
recent study by the National Autistic Society showed that as few as 17% of all
school leavers with Autism have active future plans in place.
Yet all the evidence shows that early Transition Planning is
in everyone’s interests. For families it will give reassurance (when matched
with a funding commitment). For local authorities it enables long term
strategic planning. Most importantly it enables autistic young people to have
the support that is right for them as they enter their adult lives. Without a meaningful assessment at beginning
at 14, that grows and gets refined thereafter, vulnerable young like Karl
people will inevitably be left without meaningful support on the day the school
gates close behind them.
Family carers have said many times how isolating the
Transition experience can be and that because of this it is really important to
know that ‘someone is on our side’. It was not until Mary had an advocate in
her own right, via her local carer’s centre, that there was any real action
taken to resolve her and Karl’s situation;
“Stella (carer’s advocate) encouraged me to be positive and
assertive, to look to the future rather than be stuck in the present. She
supported me to make a complaint and helped us to finally get the funding for
Karl’s support. I needed to hear those messages at the time – because to be honest
I felt about ready to give up”
As for the present, Karl is settled in an autism support
service provided by ACUK, and is busy doing the things in his Person Centred Plan. For Mary though, the word ‘Transition’ will
forever be a negative one;
“I still don’t get why at the time I needed the most support there was the least support.. All I would say to other
parents is be strong, fight, don’t just except the nothing you might get given
after special school”.
Tony and his wife had a better experience of transition
however. Much of this was to do with having a consistent social worker (based
in Adult Services) who they could speak to;
“Although the process was difficult at times, it really
helped to know that someone was trying to co-ordinate the different agencies on
our behalf” says Tony, whose son Ben has complex Autism and profound learning
disabilities.
Person Centred Planning also helped thanks to the local
authority introducing Person Centred
Transition Plans when Ben was 17. This did not alleviate the family’s
anxieties about funding but meant that there was a positive document that could
be shared with future support providers;
“We were lucky to have the time to be very involved in the process
and to speak to potential services directly. This was because everyone involved
had agreed on what Ben’s needs were and how they have to be met. The Plan
helped everyone as it said what was right for him”
Ben left school and moved to a specialist residential
placement three weeks later. As the service had been agreed and funded ahead of
time, Ben was able to make visits to his new environment and get to know his
new ACUK support staff.
The radically differing experiences of Mary and Tony mirror
what is very different local practice in terms of Transition Planning. Last year’s SEN Green Paper proposes new legal
duties for Local Authorities and may herald a single assessment system to
finally solve the jigsaw of ‘Transition’.
Yet with implementation unlikely until 2014 at the earliest, it seems inevitable
that many parents will need to keep battling the system to get a robust
transition plan in place for their Autistic teens.
Through talking to Mary, Tony and other parents ACUK have
drawn together a ‘Survival Checklist’ for parents in transition. These are the
things that family carers found helpful based on their diverse experiences –
Insist on early engagement by Adult Services or the local
Transition Team! – The first assessment
for should happen at age 14 for young people who are Statemented and will
enable everyone to think early about the future. Early planning is also in the
interests of the Local Authority, especially for young people who have very
complex needs that can’t be met locally.
Remember that Person Centred Planning is a powerful tool!
– If you feel that the assessment is not truly person centred, you could develop
your own form the many online tools available (we have included some links
below). Being positive about your child’s skills and abilities (as well as the support
they need to succeed) will help make for a good outcome.
Talk to other parents and share your experiences! – a
problem shared is a problem halved, and its useful to know that other people may
be in the same place as you and your family.
Look at adult life beyond Specialist College Placements
– funding is becoming more limited for LSP’s. Be open about where, how, and
through what kind of support package your teen can continue to learn into adult
life.
Know your Rights! – Be prepared to complain if agencies
are not talking to each other to help the transition plan. This is not about
being a ‘pushy parent’ it is about disabled young people having the same rights
and opportunities as their non-disabled peers.
Be prepared to do some research! – Knowledge is power
and you may find your local authority’s website a good first port of call to learn
what you can expect, and details of your local councillor should things go
wrong.
Contact future providers early on! – As part of your
research, speak to organisations that may be able to provide care and support
post school. Check that they are truly
specialist in Autism if your son or daughter is on the spectrum and don’t be
afraid to ask difficult questions or to arrange a visit to the service.
Don’t focus on the process, focus on the outcome! –
We all know that Transition planning won’t be straightforward by its nature (no
matter how good your Local Authority). Sometimes it helps to keep the outcome
in your mind when the process feels like it is taking over.
Look for a knowledgeable friend if things get difficult!
– Many local Carers Centres have advocacy services. They will be able to advise
what support is available to you locally throughout the transition process, or
even support you at meetings.
Autism Care UK would like to thank Mary and Tony for sharing their experiences for
this article. We have provided some useful links for family carer’s in
transition below. If you would like to contact us directly to talk about
transition please get in touch at info@autismcareuk.com
Some Useful Transition Links –
http://www.transitioninfonetwork.org.uk/home1.aspx
http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/YoungPeople/Youngdisabledpeople/index.htm
http://www.gettingalife.org.uk/resources.html
